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Discover The Secret To Raising Superhero Kids Who Have The Confidence And Moxie To Protect Themselves From Bullies And Predators!

Heroic parents are committed and proactive, raising warriors, not worriers by empowering their kids to handle themselves in dangerous situations!

Just Imagine How Scary It Would Be If… 

… your precious child was being groomed by a predator. Even worse, being assaulted by them! If you’re like most parents, you cross your fingers and hope nothing terrible happens.

But hope is not a strategy! 

And you aren’t like most parents! You are a HEROIC PARENT who’s willing to do everything in your power to protect your kid.  

You shower your kiddo with unconditional love.

You let them know it’s safe to tell you anything - the door's always open.

You're the champion of juggling all of your kid’s needs.

You strive to lead by example.

You attempt the patience game…(hey! At least you try, right?)

And despite all the chaos, you are ROCKING it as a parent. YES REALLY!

But what about the biggest fear in the back of your mind… 

DID YOU KNOW:

90%

of sexual advances directed at kids occur in internet chat rooms or instant messaging! 

in >25%

of reported incidents, online predators asked kids for sexually explicit photos!

400%

increase in online crimes over the past five years.

1 of 3

kids have either been a bully or been bullied by someone.

And did you know that kids are more likely to be sexually molested or assaulted by another juvenile than by a parent?!

Then there are those random, scary thoughts that keep you up at night…

How do I protect them from sketchy people?

How do I know if my child is really safe?

How do I ensure they’re safe when they’re online?

How do I help them be more confident?

AND THE BIG ONE:

How do I know HOW to start teaching them about body safety and WHAT to say?

Perhaps you've delved into parenting books, tuned into a podcast or two, invested in self-defense classes, or talked to them about "stranger danger" (though, just so you know, strangers make up just 7% of child predators!).

Give yourself credit for everything you have tried! Even if it doesn’t feel like it’s ever quite enough.

After all, your schedule is jam-packed already. Juggling the roles of a perfect parent, a flawless spouse, and the reigning carpool ninja—it's a lot to handle! The last thing you need is anything else dumped in your lap to make you feel even more guilty.

  • What if you knew WHAT to say to your kid about the dangers and HOW to say it?

  • What if you could do it in a way that doesn’t scare them?

  • What if you could empower them to be confident and capable of setting solid boundaries?

  • What if you could feel reassured that you’ve equipped them to handle bullies and predatory grooming?

  • What if you could foster a stronger bond with your child?

  • What if you could do it on your own timeline, at YOUR convenience?

But What if...

Hi! I’m CJ Scarlet

I’m your go-to expert when it comes to safeguarding your amazing, precious child. With a master's degree in human violence and more than three decades of experience as a kid safety crusader, I've battled predators, empowered survivors, and crafted a unique approach to protecting our kids.

As the former executive director of a child advocacy center for abused kids and the Director of Victim Issues for the NC Attorney General’s Office, I've been on the front lines, leading the implementation of the nation’s first statewide victim notification system.

But my commitment doesn't end there—I’ve authored three award-winning books for parents about how to empower their kids to avoid bullies and predators and defend themselves from assault.

I am also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a sexual assault as a college freshman, offering me the unenviable perspective of a crime victim. Now I use those experiences as rocket fuel to propel my efforts to protect kids across the globe.

I'm here to arm YOU with the tools to transform your kid into a SUPERHERO who knows how to avoid sketchy people and escape dangerous encounters!

Become the superhero parent your child needs with…

Bite-Size Wisdom for Predator-Proofing Kids

This revolutionary, step-by-step training program is for busy parents like you who want their kids to be safe and savvy.

It’s perfect for those who want to be proactive about protecting their kids, build trust, improve communication, and minimize the risk of victimization.

You - and your kid – have more power to protect them than you think!

Through Heroic Parenting 101, you’ll learn to…

Identify potential predators and their grooming tactics

Identify potential predators and their Cultivate your kid’s three Safety Superpowers tactics

Recognize and mitigate online threats, bullying, and other dangers

Teach them simple yet effective self-defense techniques

Confidently navigate conversations about sexual consent

Boost your child’s confidence–the ultimate predator repellent!

  • 16 modules in short, easy-to-consume videos that are all under 10 minutes long.

  • Self-paced curriculum, so you can watch the videos when it’s convenient for YOU!

  • Actionable handouts and worksheets.

What You’ll Get in Heroic Parenting 101:

Bonuses! Including:

  • Semi-monthly group coaching calls with the Badass Grandma and other experts

  • A Heroic Parents Tribe community just for heroic parents like you

  • PLUS… super cool merch, and more!

ABOUT THE COURSE

IN PART I: YOU’LL LEARN ABOUT:

  • Who the main predators are and how they groom their victims

  • Online dangers (where crimes against kids are skyrocketing!)

  • Bullying and cyberbullying

  • Sexual molestation and assault

  • Kidnapping and sex trafficking

IN PART II, YOU’LL LEARN HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KID ABOUT BODY SAFETY AT THEIR AGE AND MATURITY LEVEL. TOPICS INCLUDE:

  • WHEN and HOW to have body safety conversations

  • WHAT to teach them

  • Helping your child develop strong boundaries

  • Teaching them how to say “no” to people who make them feel uncomfortable or afraid, and then TELL YOU what happened

  • Safe vs unsafe touch

  • Safe vs unsafe people

  • What to do if something bad does happen

  • An entire module on teaching kids with disabilities about body safety!

  • How to teach your tween or teen about sexual consent so they don't become an inadvertent victim or perpetrator

IN PART III, YOU'LL LEARN ESSENTIAL LIFE LESSONS TO RAISE A SAFE, SAVVY, CONFIDENT KID, INCLUDING:

  • How to cultivate your kid's 3 superpowers (their intuition, boundaries, and moxie)

  • Ways to increase your child’s confidence & self-esteem (the #1 predator-repellent!)

  • Teaching your kid to fight like a “rabid Tasmanian devil” using super simple self-defense moves that can be learned in minutes--not months or years

  • Using daily sharing and monthly family meetings to build a stronger bond with your child and help ensure they come to you first with questions and concerns

BONUSES:

  • Semi-monthly calls with CJ Scarlet and other kid safety and parenting experts, where you can interact with other safety-conscious parents

  • Lifetime access to the Heroic Parents Tribe

  • Fun rewards and points to use toward VERY cool “Heroic Mom/Dad” merch for completing course milestones

  • Exercises and handouts that will guide you and help cement what you learn

  • A Monthly Family Meeting Calendar with proposed topics

  • A “Get Out of Jail Free” card for your kid (this will be explained in the course)

  • A Caregiver Checklist for those all-important date nights

  • Access to CJ’s Freebies and resource library

  • Direct email support with a rapid response

LAUNCHING SOON!

Get ready to equip your kids with the skills they need to stay safe and make smart decisions.

Sign up now and get exclusive access at to the Early Bird Deal with special discounted rates before launch day!

This offer is only available until the official launch, so don’t miss out!

  • The cost of martial arts training for your kid to gain mastery –around $15,000!

  • The cost of self-defense training for your kid to acquire muscle memory – around $1,750

  • The cost of therapy bills to overcome the trauma if your child IS victimized – up to $10,000 or more!

  • The cost of empowering your kid to NOT ONLY be able to physically defend themself, but also HOW to AVOID danger in the first place?

Priceless!

And the cost of doing nothing? It’s unthinkable and not worth the risk!

You’ve got to give your kid a fighting chance!

Parents who DON’T teach their kids the lessons you’ll find in this course are leaving them more vulnerable to bullies and predators.

There’s also the mental health implications (think PTSD, addiction, and behavioral problems) and emotional costs (such as trouble forming healthy relationships), which can last for years, decades, or even their lifetime.

Your best (and least expensive!) option is to enroll in Heroic Parenting 101, where you’ll learn how to empower your kid for the rest of their life to AVOID and REPEL bullies and predators.

All this, and YOU get peace of mind and the satisfaction of knowing you’ve done all you can to protect your child from harm—by teaching them to protect themself!

We want EVERY parent to be able to afford this potentially life-saving course, so we’re offering it for just $497, which is TOTALLY worth it to have an empowered kid, am I right? (Payment plans are available for those who need them.)

But wait! There’s more! If you sign up for the course BEFORE it launches (est. to be in April), you’ll pay just $347! That’s $150 OFF the regular price! But you have to register before the course launches or you’ll lose out on this massive discount!

Take advantage of this amazing deal NOW and be the parent your child deserves!

WE’RE HERE FOR YOU!

Complete our Heroic Parenting 101 course and discover actionable insights designed to empower you and your child. We’re here to support you every step of the way. If you need assistance along your journey, don’t hesitate to reach out to us at support@THEBadassGrandma.com.

We’re committed to your success!

FAQs

  • Every single kid is different. Isn’t it amazing? You know your child better than anyone, and only you can gauge what they can handle. I encourage you to use your best judgment when teaching them the tips, tools, and techniques I share to ensure they’re not overwhelmed or frightened. If you sense they’re feeling afraid or shutting down, you can always stop and try again another time when you believe they’re ready.

  • Absolutely! We include an entire module in this course for parents of kids with disabilities because there’s a LOT these kids can do to protect themselves.

  • Your kid knows more than you may think about how dangerous the world can be. Not knowing how to avoid or handle these dangers makes your kid MORE, not LESS, vulnerable to predators. The Heroic Parenting 101 course breaks down what to say about body safety issues and how to approach them according to your child’s age and developmental level so you don’t overwhelm or frighten them. You can also stop and try again when they’re a bit older.

  • Those of you who, like me, were traumatized as a child may feel triggered by discussions about child molestation and assault, for example. I get it. But if you have a history of abuse, it’s even MORE imperative that you learn how to protect your child because research has shown that children of parents who’ve experienced abuse (even when it’s never discussed!) are more likely to be victimized themselves. This course is your chance to break the generation cycle of abuse and give your child the protection you didn’t receive.

  • I cannot. No one, no matter how much of an expert they are (and I’m right there at the top of the list), can guarantee such a thing. Unfortunately, a determined predator could still target your child. But you and they will be 100 times more prepared, making it far more likely they can minimize their risk. And just imagine the cost of NOT teaching them what they need to know to be safer!

  • Item descriYour time investment is totally up to you! We intentionally kept each video super short–under 10 minutes–so you can watch them on the fly, whether you’re sitting in the carpool lane or waiting for soccer practice to end.

    You can pick and choose which modules to watch, based on your child’s specific age group and situation. So if, for example, your main concern is bullying or online dangers, you can watch those videos first and come back to the others when you’re ready.

  • Each semi-monthly call is scheduled to last one hour.

  • You get unlimited lifetime access to all the materials. The video modules and materials, including updates to the course, are yours to keep!

  • I genuinely appreciate your interest in the course. We made it as affordable as possible and offer the option to spread your payments out over five months for just $110 each month – TOTALLY worth it to protect your kid and empower them for the rest of their life, am I right?

  • If you have questions about the course or need our help, you can email us at support@THEBadassGrandma.com

  • “I love that CJ Scarlet included a module in her online course about how to empower kids with disabilities to protect and defend themselves from predators. Children with special needs are many times more likely to be bullied and sexually molested or assaulted—but they have more power to protect themselves than either they or their parents may think. Through easy-to-follow steps, CJ shows you how to make your child safer.”

    Elena Arecco Bridgmon, LUMO

  • "As the parent of two teenagers, I ’m so overwhelmed with work and parenting and l ife in general it ’s hard to find time to read books about kids’ safety. I worry that my kids could be victims of predators onl ine and want to do something to help protect them. I signed on as a beta user for CJ’s onl ine course and am blown away by how much I was able to learn and immediately apply that ’s making my kids safer. I feel more confident that my chi ldren now know how to avoid dangerous people and situations and fight l ike “Taz” if they have to defend themselves. It feels so good to ditch the worry and stress!"

    Deb O’Neill, mom

  • "My son, who’s in the fifth grade, has been verbally bullied by another kid all year. At first, I told him to stand up for himself and work it out on his own, but even I didn’t really know what that meant he should say and do. In the Heroic Parenting 101 course, CJ Scarlet tackles this topic in-depth and teaches ways kids can “train” bullies to leave them alone. She also talks about what to do if the bullying becomes physical, including how to document the incidents and how to work with the school to ensure your kid is protected and safe. The modules were interesting, short, and easy to follow, and my son and I were able to apply what we learned right away."

    Alex Rakers, mom

  • "CJ Scarlet is THE most knowledgeable expert I know when it comes to helping parents protect their kids from danger. The lessons in her online course are easy to consume and apply, and I appreciate the way she breaks down the content into manageable chunks. The information she shares will help keep kids from being victimized and could even save lives!"

    Stephanie McDilda, grandmom

  • "I had never talked to my daughters about body safety issues before because I didn’t know what to say to them or how to say it without scaring them to death. I LOVE that CJ Scarlet offers videos where she speaks directly to the kids about what they need to know to be safer. Watching these videos with my girls sparked a long overdue conversation and created a stronger bond and greater trust between us. Thank you, Badass Grandma!"

    Milada Kurucova, mom

  • "I enrolled in the Heroic Parenting 101 online course because I was worried about my daughter’s safety, like most parents are these days. I wanted to help boost her self-esteem and confidence while teaching her how to avoid dangerous people, but it was hard to figure out where to start. CJ Scarlet’s course addressed my concerns, and I was able to teach my daughter about using her intuition and how to set and defend strong, healthy boundaries. I feel so much better knowing she’s better protected when I am not around."

    Lindsay Hemingway, mom

  • “Being a grandma is the best thing ever! But it’s also one of the most challenging because of the potential dangers my grandkids face in the real world and online. I purchased CJ Scarlet’s online course for family members so they’ll know how to best empower my grandkids to protect and defend themselves from dangerous people. Knowing they’ll be safer gives me greater peace of mind.”

    Lin Daley, grandmother

DON’T LET YOUR FEAR STOP YOU FROM TAKING ACTION TODAY!

It doesn’t take your life savings or your last spare minute to get started! Your commitment to raise a happy, healthy, safe child matters the most!

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